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Relationship, Intimacy, Sex &
Alternative Lifestyle Coaching

Empowering Connection, Healing, and Transformation

Naked conversations
extraordinary connections


Hi, I'm Shakira Bapoo, a professional coach helping individuals and couples rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and reconnect with themselves and each other, without judgement or pressure . 


My approach blends clear communication tools, compassion, and practical steps you can use immediately.

MY REVIEWS

Palesa M.

I’ve been married for over a decade, and I thought we had a ‘good enough’ sex life until we started working with Shakira. Her coaching helped us break out of routine, communicate openly about desires, and explore intimacy in ways we never imagined. My partner and I are closer than ever, both emotionally and physically. If you’re hesitating, don’t—this is worth every cent.

Cassie B

As someone curious about ethical non-monogamy, I needed guidance on navigating it healthily. Shakira provided clear, compassionate advice without pushing an agenda. Now I feel prepared to explore on my own terms.

Julia T

Working with Shakira has completely transformed my relationship and my self-confidence. Her approach is non-judgmental, insightful, and tailored exactly to my needs. As someone exploring alternative lifestyles, I finally feel understood and empowered. Highly recommend!

Zanele K

I struggled with body image issues for years, and no amount of therapy seemed to help until I found Coach Shakira. Her coaching helped me embrace my body and rebuild my confidence in ways I didn’t think were possible. Forever grateful.

James & Sarah L

After years of a stagnant sex life, my partner and I were hesitant about coaching. Coach Shakira created a safe space for us to explore intimacy without pressure. The tools and communication strategies we learned brought back the spark, and then some.

Riley M

As someone in the kink community, finding a coach who truly ‘gets it’ is rare. Shakira not only understands but provides practical, respectful advice that aligns with my values. My confidence in both my relationships and personal boundaries has skyrocketed.

Tyrone N

I came for intimacy coaching but stayed for the incredible personal growth. Coach Shakira helped me break through deep-seated insecurities affecting all areas of my life. Now, I approach relationships and myself with so much more clarity and confidence.

Natali P

I was nervous about discussing my desires and past traumas, but Shakira made me feel safe from day one. Her expertise in both intimacy and body positivity helped me heal and own my story. Couldn’t recommend enough!!

Nosi & Sibusiso R

My partner and I were stuck in constant miscommunication loops. Coach Shakira gave us practical tools to express needs and desires without conflict. Our emotional and physical connection has never been stronger.

Ismail M

Working with Shakira has completely transformed my relationship and my self-confidence. Her approach is non-judgmental, insightful, and tailored exactly to my needs. As someone exploring alternative lifestyles, I finally feel understood and empowered. Highly recommended.

Mbali M

Coach Shakira showed me that it isn’t just about sex. It’s about understanding yourself deeply. She blends relationship wisdom, body positivity, and practical intimacy techniques seamlessly. Every session leaves me feeling lighter and more empowered

Jordan P

I didn’t realize how much my lack of confidence was holding me back both in and out of the bedroom. Shakira’s coaching helped me reclaim my self-worth and approach intimacy with excitement instead of fear.

John T

Before finding this coaching service, I felt stuck. Shakira provided the clarity and support I desperately needed. She is incredibly knowledgeable, empathetic, and practical, and helped me navigate my thoughts and feelings about my gender without ever pushing me in one direction or another. Thanks to her guidance, I now have the confidence to live my truth. This was the best investment I have ever made in myself.

MY COACHING OFFERINGS

Relationship
Coaching

Intimacy
Coaching

Sex
Coaching

Alternative
Lifestyle
Coaching

Body Confidence Coaching

Personal Confidence Coaching

MY WORKSHOPS

Relationship & Communication


  • The Art of Conscious Communication : 
  • Helping partners break down barriers, resolve conflict, and speak so they feel heard.


  • Trust After Betrayal :
  • For couples wanting to heal after emotional or physical breaches.

  • Love Languages in Action :
  • A fun and interactive way to explore giving and receiving love.

Intimacy & Connection


  • Deepening Emotional and Physical Intimacy:
  • Tools to feel closer, more secure, and more connected.

  • Touch Without Agenda:
  • Exploring non-sexual touch to restore safety and connection.

  • The Sensual Self:
  • Reconnecting with one’s body and sensuality through mindfulness and movement.
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Sexual Wellness & Education


    • Sacred Sexuality for Modern Lovers:
    • Blending sex-positive education with emotional and spiritual connection.

    • Exploring Pleasure Without Shame:
    • Understanding anatomy, desire, and arousal in a safe, judgement-free space.

     The G-Spot, Squirting, and Female Pleasure:
    Factual, demystified, and empowering

Exploring Alternative Lifestyles


  • Intro to the Swinging Lifestyle:
  • Etiquette, communication, safety, and how to explore confidently.

  • Polyamory & Open Relationships:
  • Boundaries, agreements, and navigating emotions.

  • Kink 101:
  • Consent, Safety, Exploration and Understanding BDSM, safe play, and negotiation.

Personal Growth & Self-Empowerment


  • Body Confidence & Self-Love:
  • Challenging negative self-talk and celebrating your body.

  • Healing from Sexual Trauma:
  • Gentle, trauma-informed sessions combining education and empowerment.

  • Owning Your Desire:
  • Identifying, expressing, and embracing your sexual and emotional wants.

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Boksburg 1459
Gauteng, South Africa

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